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Ordinary Guy Extraordinary Marriage Survey #1

  1. Age

  2. Male Female

  3. Married - how long? years

  4. 1st, 2nd, 3rd or more marriage? 1st 2nd 3rd or more

  5. Employment

  6. Spouse employment

  7. Religious affiliation

  8. Are you active in your faith community? Weekly Monthly 2-3 times a year Spotty

  9. Spouse religious affiliation

  10. Is your spouse active in his/her faith community? Weekly Monthly 2-3 times a year Spotty

  11. Are you active in your faith together? Yes No

  12. Were you married in a Church wedding Civil ceremony

  13. Children from this marriage? (box to indicate 0, 1,2,3,4,5 of more)

  14. Children from previous marriage(s)?
    From my previous marriage(s)
    From my spouse's previous marriage(s)

  15. Why did you marry your wife/husband?

  16. Why did he/she marry you?

  17. What is your favorite thing about your wife/husband?

    Does he/she know that? Yes No

  18. What is her/his favorite thing about you?

    How do you know?

  19. What is it about your wife/husband that you don’t get?

  20. What is it about you that your wife/husband doesn’t get and you wish she/he did?

  21. What is the number one behavior/experience you would like to change in your marriage?

  22. What surprised you about marriage in a good way?

  23. What surprised you about marriage that you have not been able to reconcile?

  24. What has caused the greatest conflict in your marriage?

    How did you resolve it?

  25. What has given you the greatest joy in your marriage?

    How have you nurtured it?

  26. What is the most important thing you need from your spouse?

    Are you getting it? Yes? Why? No? Why not? What are you doing about it?

  27. What is the most important thing he/she needs from you?

    Is he/she getting it? Yes? Why? No? Why not? What are you doing about it?

  28. Have you told/showed your wife/husband that you love her/him today?

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